For a few weeks on Monday Musings, we’re looking at principles found in the 10 commandments that can be applied to guarding intimacy with our spouse. Not legalistic, binding laws, but principles that can guide us in our decisions. To catch up on this series: part 1, part 2, part 3, part4. “Remember the Sabbath […]
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10 Principles for Guarding Intimacy in Marriage Part 4
For a few weeks on Monday Musings, we’re looking at principles found in the 10 commandments that can be applied to guarding intimacy with our spouse. Not legalistic, binding laws, but principles that can guide us in our decisions. To catch up on this series: part 1, part 2, part 3. “You shall not misuse […]
10 Principles for Guarding Intimacy in Marriage Part 3
Today, we continue to look at principles found in the 10 commandments that can be applied to guarding intimacy with our spouse. Not legalistic, binding laws, but principles that can guide us in our decisions. To catch up on this series, read Part 1 and Part 2. “You shall not make for yourself an idol…”Exodus […]
10 Principles for Guarding Intimacy in Marriage Part 2
Reading through the Old Testament, I noticed the principles found in the 10 commandments could also be applied as healthy boundaries for intimacy in marriage. Say what?! Yep! The Egyptians used rules and regulations to oppress, but God used the law as a way to put boundaries around the Israelites to help them stay in […]
Guarding Intimacy in Marriage : Part 1
Intimacy. Sometimes equated with sex. Because sex is often the expression of intimacy or the place people go to look for intimacy. But it is more than sex. And not really sex at all. Dictionary.com gives several possible definitions all including a measure of closeness, deep knowledge of, familiarity, affection and privacy. I’ve heard it said […]
Build Your Marriage: Be Forthright in Your Communication
She speaks with wisdom, and faithful instruction is on her tongue. Proverbs 31:26 NIV When my husband and children are playing like wild buffalos while I prepare supper at the end of a bad day, when my nerves are tighter than a guy wire, I have a choice. I can either expect my husband to […]
Build Your Marriage: Keep Emotions Bridled
Like a city whose walls are broken down is a man who lacks self-control. Proverbs 25:28 NIV I’m just going to say it. Manage your PMS. Don’t let your PMS manage you. Passion is good. There is a place for it. But left unbridled, passion can destroy more quickly than it builds. Raging hormones do […]
Build Your Marriage: Deal Positively with Conflict
In your anger do not sin”: Do “not let the sun go down while you are still angry… Ephesians 4:26 It’s a short list today. Keep short accounts. Deal with today’s conflict instead of hiding it in the closet waiting for just the “right” moment. Deal with the issue at hand. Don’t throw in any red herrings. […]
Build Your Marriage: Through Good Times and Bad Part 5
Be Quiet When words are many, sin is not absent, but he who holds his tongue is wise. Proverbs 10:19 When my husband and I were first married, I was determined that homeschooling was the best way to educate our future children. My husband thought it might be nice. I decided not to push it. […]
Build Your Marriage: Through Good Times and Bad Part 4
Listen to Your Spouse Even a fool is thought wise if he keeps silent, and discerning if he holds his tongue Proverbs 17:28 NIV Listening to our husband’s heart and encouraging his dreams let him know that he is important to us. This fosters intimacy. When he comes home with what appears to be a […]
